Wife
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
If you are married, in what way is the girl you dated different from the woman you married? If you are single or dating, in what way do you want the woman you marry to be different from the girl you are dating? What thoughts come to your mind? I bet you have a few thoughts, I also do.
After being married for over 2 Months to my awesome wife, l can testify that the girl l dated is different from the woman l proudly call my wife. She has definitely improved in ways I never imagined, and for the better.
If you go through dating and your marriage journey, you will inevitable look back to realize the girl you dated is different from the woman are married to. To clarify, l do not mean she would become a brand new person. What l mean is that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.
Either way, the woman you marry will not be the same as the girl you dated.
1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.
2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within.
3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have. The marriage is her priority.
4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back.
5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement.
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy.
7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and children (even if she wants to have some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you.
8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.
9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach after all, right?
10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again.
11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage
12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.
13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try.
14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.
What are your thoughts on these differences between the girl you date and the woman you marry?
Some of these differences can also apply to the boy you date and the man you marry.
The Difference Between A Wife and A Girlfriend...
1. A wife helps a husband tomanage his finances properly. while
a girlfriend helps her guy to spend
and lavish his money.
2. A wife is a home maker. She
manages the home very well. While
a girlfriend in most cases could be a
home wrecker. she comes only to
visit and have fun, and return to the
comfort of her own home.
3. A wife prays with her husband.
While a girlfriend hardly prays, or
pray on her own.
4. A wife thinks and pray for the
success and progress of her husband
and the family. While a girlfriend
only hope for the success of her guy,
for her own benefit.
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
5. A wife prefer to cook for her
husband. While a girlfriend prefer to
eat out (eat at fast-food restaurants)
buy take-away to eat all the time.
6. A wife is loyal to her husband all
the time. While a girlfriend is only
loyal whenever her palms are
greased with cash.
7. A wife is ready and willing to
stand by her husband both in good
or bad time. While a girlfriend only
comes around when all is good.
8. A wife plans for the future with
her husband. While a girlfriend is
only concerned about today
(present).
9. A wife is willing to support her
husband/family. While a girlfriend
finds it hard to support her guy
even if she has the means.
10. A wife's love for her husband is
100%. While a girlfriend's love or
interest is divided among her main
guy and prospective lovers/suitors.
11. A wife is willing to make
sacrifices for her husband/home.
While a girlfriend is ready to jump
ship once things become tough for
her guy.
12. A wife does things for the good
of her home. While a girlfriend does
things for herself only.
13. A wife makes investment for her
home. While a girlfriend invest only
for her future. no boyfriend is in her
plans at all.
14. A wife helps her husband save
for the future. While a girlfriend
only thinks of today.
Who is She ?
Wife :Wife is usually known as better half of her husband.Girlfriend :A girlfriend is a female partner with whom one is romantically and maybe sexually involved with.
Relationship Status !
Wife : The relationship is not kept secret.
Girlfriend : The relationship is kept secret.
Cooking !
Wife : A wife prefer to cook for her husband.
Girlfriend : A girlfriend prefer to eat out or eat at fast-food restaurants.
Loyalty
Wife : A wife is loyal to her husband all the time.
Girlfriend : A girlfriend is only loyal whenever her palms are greased with cash.
Plans
Wife : A wife plans for the future with her husband.
Girlfriend : A girlfriend is only concerned about present.
Expenses :
Wife : No expenses splits between a married couple.
Girlfriend : Expenses splits until you share the last name.
Family :
Wife : A wife always wants to get separated from their in laws.
Girlfriend : She was always sending them cute presents and making them photo books.
Encourages To Save Money :
Wife : If your spouse tends to spend much money on a wife, high-expense items, a wife will make him understand to save it.
Girlfriend : If a guy tends to spend money on a girlfriend, she will be very happy and likes to hang out more with him.
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
Put His Needs Before Of Her Own :
Wife : Wife always thinks about her family and husband before her own needs.
Girlfriend : Girlfriend always think about herself only.
Career :
Wife : “What the hell do you mean you have another business trip? I wish I got to stay in a hotel sometimes.”
Girlfriend : She was so proud of you and your dedication to your career. She thought you were brilliant and impressive.
Compliments :
Wife : “First of all, I told you to get rid of that shirt. And why did you pick this place? It’s just that Mexican food makes me sick.
Girlfriend : She thought you were smart, handsome, and funny. She complimented your taste in movies, books, music, and restaurants.
Date :
Wife : A wife has no time for date and if she gets ready for it, some important work comes and cancels date at the last moment.
Girlfriend : A girlfriend always get ready perfectly and looks hot. You loved how spontaneous she could be
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
Sex :
Wife: She will have sex with you if you initiate, if she isn’t tired.
Girlfriend : She went frequently to get new lingerie. She told you how great you were in bed.
Modesty :
Wife : The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.
Girlfriend : The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
Compromise :
Wife : The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage.
Girlfriend : The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
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| A wife is a female partner in a continuing marital relationship |
1. Wife has legal right in husband property, girlfriend doesn't.
2. Wife can use her legal right to protect her or abuse/extort husband and his family using domestic violence law.
3. Wife is expected to be reliable than girlfriend.
4. Girlfriend always sound easy going as she doesn't impose matrimonial restrictions.
5. If you get kids with girlfriend, and you don't promise to marriage, she may charge you for rape, wife can't in most countries.
6. My take: girlfriend can't be wife. Wife can be live as if girlfriend.
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